Are you a loser?

Are you a loser? Or not?

If yes, what makes you became a loser?

Many people come to the stage of handling their life, they started to think they are a loser. But why? The reason because they set a goal too far for them to reach. They've doubt in themselves which literally became their obstacle. Only successful people are always the winners in our society. Winners operate in a totally different frame of mind compared to losers, and that is why they always got the result that the losers dream of.

There's one quote here: " Each player must accept the cards life deals him or her. But once they are in hand, he or she alone must decide how to play with the cards in order to win the game." Said - Voltaire.

What do you call it a "WINNER" and a "LOSER" ?

1. Winners focus on solution whereby losers focus on problems.

2. Winners take responsibility whereby losers blames on others.

3. Winners find opportunities in crisis whereby losers complain about crisis.

4. Winners enjoy being in present and learn from the past whereby losers only live in the past.

5. Winners think about how they can achieve, losers give excuses.

6. Winners make commitment and keep them no matter what, losers make promises that they always break.

7. Winners make personal development a priority whereby losers neglect personal development.

8. Winners face their fear and accept it whereby losers dwell in their fear.

9. Winners constantly expand their comfort, losers stay in their comfort zone.

10. Winners take action consistently, losers refrain from taking action and lack consistency.

11. Winners take failure and learn from them, losers fear failure and avoid them at all cost.

12. Winners try different strategies to get the results they want, losers do the same thing over and over again expecting different results.

13. Winners always set goals whereby losers lack of goals.

14. Winners do planning whereby losers hate planning.

15. Winners believe there are always thing to be learn, losers consider themselves as an expert even though they know little.

16. Winners are humble whereby losers are egoistic.

17. Winners continue to hone their skill every other day without fail, losers make little effort in honing their skill.

18. Winners dream in the day, losers dream in the bed.

19. Winners think about possibilities, losers focus on obstacles that will stop them from achieving.

20. Winners are certain, losers doubt.

21. Winners give more than they take, losers take more than they give.

22. Winners think and lead whereby losers refuse to think so they follow.

23. Winners listen, losers fight for every chance to talk.

24. Winners help others to win, losers refuse to help and think only about their own benefit.

After reading above, which categories are you in?

The LOSER? or the WINNER?

In life, nobody wants to be the loser; unless you want yourself to be. Remember, don't blame anyone who makes you became a loser now; but blame yourself. What can you do if you think you are a loser now? Are you going to help yourself once again or waiting others to spoon feed you? What you can do now is to change your own mindset, stop thinking how loser you are instead of how are you going to become a winner. Set a goal for yourself to accomplish, and decide where you want to go.

Do not give up; because one day... You will get everything in return for what you've paid of.